Time Commitment: What Owner-Building Really Takes
Let's talk honestly about time. This is where many owner-builders underestimate and then struggle.
Expect 12-18 months total with weekly commitments ranging from 10-40 hours depending on the phase and how much you DIY. Total investment: 500-2,000+ hours of your life.
The Quick Answer
Total Project Duration: 12-18 months (vs. 6-9 months with a GC)
Your Weekly Time Investment:
- Minimum: 10-15 hours/week (hiring most work)
- Typical: 15-25 hours/week (doing some DIY work)
- Maximum: 40+ hours/week (DIY heavy, full-time)
Total Hours You'll Invest: 500-2,000+ hours depending on approach
Why It Takes Longer
Professional GCs Work Faster Because:
- Construction is their full-time job
- They have established sub relationships
- They know exactly who to call
- They can make decisions quickly
- They're on-site daily managing work
- No learning curve
You'll Be Slower Because:
- You have another job/life
- You're learning as you go
- Subs may not prioritize you
- Decision-making takes longer
- You can't be on-site as much
- Scheduling around your availability
This doesn't mean you shouldn't do it. It just means plan accordingly. Slower doesn't mean worse—it means realistic.
Weekly Time Requirements by Phase
Here's what to expect for a typical 2,000-2,500 sq ft home:
| Phase | Duration | Hours/Week | Total Hours |
|---|---|---|---|
| Planning | 4-8 weeks | 8-12 | 30-50 |
| Permitting | 8-12 weeks | 5-8 | 40-60 |
| Sub Search | 4-8 weeks | 15-20 | 60-100 |
| Site Prep | 1-2 weeks | 15-20 | 15-25 |
| Foundation | 4-6 weeks | 8-12 | 25-40 |
| Framing | 6-10 weeks | 10-20 | 60-120 |
| Rough-In Trades | 6-10 weeks | 12-18 | 80-120 |
| Insulation/Drywall | 4-8 weeks | 10-15 | 40-70 |
| Interior Finishes | 16-24 weeks | 10-20 | 150-300 |
| Final Inspection | 2-4 weeks | 15-20 | 30-50 |
| TOTAL | 52-78 weeks | varies | 530-935 |
If you're doing hands-on work yourself, add 200-1,000 additional hours depending on what you tackle. DIY framing alone can add 200-400 hours.
Detailed Time Breakdown by Phase
Planning & Preparation (Month 1-2)
Your Time: 30-50 hours total
Key Activities:
- Finalizing house plans (10-15 hours)
- Budget creation (8-12 hours)
- Financing/loan applications (5-8 hours)
- Preliminary site visits (3-5 hours)
- Research and education (10-15 hours)
Do this while still living in your current home. Evenings and weekends work fine for planning. Front-load your learning here—it pays dividends later.
Permitting (Month 2-4)
Your Time: 40-60 hours total
Key Activities:
- Plan corrections and submissions (15-25 hours)
- Building department meetings (5-10 hours)
- Hiring engineers if needed (3-5 hours)
- Document preparation (10-15 hours)
- Follow-ups and resubmissions (10-15 hours)
Timeline Factors:
- Plan review: 2-8 weeks (you can't control this)
- Your responsiveness to corrections: critical
Submit early—don't wait. Be extremely responsive to correction requests. Visit the building department in person when possible. Every day of delay here pushes your entire timeline back.
Finding & Vetting Subs (Month 2-4)
Your Time: 60-100 hours total
Key Activities:
- Research and initial contacts (20-30 hours)
- Getting quotes (15-25 hours)
- Interviewing and vetting (15-25 hours)
- Contract negotiations (10-15 hours)
- Reference checking (10-15 hours)
Start while waiting for permits. Interview multiple subs per trade. Don't rush this—bad subs cost you way more time later than good vetting costs upfront.
Site Preparation (Weeks 1-2)
Your Time: 15-25 hours
Key Activities:
- Final site planning (3-5 hours)
- Coordinating excavation (2-3 hours)
- Utility connections coordination (3-5 hours)
- Site visits and inspections (5-10 hours)
- Material deliveries coordination (2-4 hours)
Foundation (Weeks 2-6)
Your Time: 25-40 hours
Key Activities:
- Footing inspection prep and attendance (3-5 hours)
- Coordinating concrete pours (4-6 hours)
- Foundation inspection coordination (3-5 hours)
- Daily site visits (10-15 hours)
- Problem-solving and decisions (5-10 hours)
You need to be available when concrete is being poured. That's typically a weekday. Plan to take time off work or be flexible.
Framing (Weeks 6-14)
Your Time: 60-120 hours
This is the longest phase and requires the most active management.
Key Activities:
- Daily coordination with framers (30-50 hours)
- Material ordering and deliveries (10-15 hours)
- Problem-solving (10-20 hours)
- Framing inspection prep (8-12 hours)
- Quality checks (10-15 hours)
- Decision-making on changes (5-10 hours)
If you're DIY framing: Add 200-400 hours of actual labor
Framing inspection can't happen until complete. Any delays here cascade through your entire project. This is where timeline discipline matters most.
Rough-In Trades (Weeks 14-22)
Your Time: 80-120 hours
Three trades happening simultaneously: plumbing, electrical, HVAC
Key Activities:
- Coordinating three trades (30-50 hours)
- Material selections and ordering (15-25 hours)
- Site visits and oversight (20-30 hours)
- Three separate inspections (10-15 hours)
- Problem-solving and changes (10-20 hours)
These trades can conflict—plumber and electrician both want certain spaces. You're the referee. Have a clear schedule posted and communicate between trades constantly.
Insulation & Drywall (Weeks 22-28)
Your Time: 40-70 hours
Key Activities:
- Insulation inspection coordination (5-8 hours)
- Drywall contractor management (15-25 hours)
- Site visits during mudding/sanding (10-15 hours)
- Planning for next phases (10-15 hours)
If you're DIY drywall: Add 150-300 hours (it's brutal)
Interior Finishes (Weeks 28-48)
Your Time: 150-300 hours
This is the longest phase by calendar time and where most owner-builders DIY to save money.
Key Activities:
- Trim work (DIY or managing: 40-80 hours)
- Painting (DIY or managing: 30-60 hours)
- Flooring coordination (15-25 hours)
- Kitchen/bath installation (20-40 hours)
- Cabinet and countertop coordination (15-30 hours)
- Fixture installation (10-20 hours)
- Punch list creation and completion (20-40 hours)
This phase has the most decision fatigue. You'll make hundreds of small choices (paint colors, hardware, fixtures). Order long-lead items early (cabinets, countertops). Many tasks can happen in evenings/weekends.
Final Inspections & Move-In (Weeks 48-52+)
Your Time: 30-50 hours
Final Phase Checklist
Work Schedule Scenarios
Choose your approach based on your life situation:
Scenario 1: Full-Time Job, Minimal DIY Labor
Typical Week:
- 2-3 weekday evenings (6-9pm): 6-9 hours
- Saturday: 6-8 hours
- Sunday: 3-4 hours
- Total: 15-21 hours/week
What This Looks Like:
- Quick site visits after work
- Longer Saturday site time
- Sunday admin (ordering, calls, planning)
- Take vacation days for inspections and critical events
Timeline: 16-20 months Feasibility: Very doable if you hire quality subs
Scenario 2: Flexible Schedule, Some DIY
Typical Week:
- Monday-Friday mornings: 2-3 hours each (10-15 hours)
- 2-3 full days on-site: 16-24 hours
- Evening admin: 3-5 hours
- Total: 29-44 hours/week
What This Looks Like:
- Work afternoons/evenings at day job
- Mornings on construction site
- Can attend all inspections
- Do some DIY finish work
Timeline: 12-15 months Feasibility: Ideal if you have flexibility
Scenario 3: Full-Time Owner-Builder
Typical Week:
- Monday-Friday on-site: 40-50 hours
- Evening admin: 5-10 hours
- Weekend: 8-12 hours
- Total: 53-72 hours/week
What This Looks Like:
- Quit your job or take leave
- Treat it like a full-time job
- Do significant DIY work
- Intensive but fastest approach
Timeline: 9-12 months Feasibility: Requires financial runway
Scenario 3 requires 9-12 months of living expenses saved. Have a partner with stable income or substantial savings. This is not the time to be financially stretched.
Hidden Time Costs
These are easy to underestimate but add up quickly:
Decision Making (50-100 hours total)
Every. Single. Thing. Requires a decision:
| Decision Type | Estimated Time |
|---|---|
| Paint colors (with spouse) | 10+ hours |
| Light fixtures | 5-10 hours |
| Cabinet hardware | 2-3 hours |
| Flooring selection | 5-8 hours |
| Roof shingles | 2-3 hours |
| Exterior finishes | 5-10 hours |
Make a decision schedule. Decide on things weeks before you need them. Don't let decision-making block your critical path.
Material Shopping (40-80 hours)
- Building supply trips: 20-40 hours
- Specialty stores (tile, cabinets, etc.): 15-30 hours
- Online research: 10-20 hours
Problem Solving (30-60 hours)
Things will go wrong. You'll spend time:
- Dealing with wrong materials delivered
- Fixing subcontractor mistakes
- Addressing inspection failures
- Redesigning things that don't work as planned
Administrative Tasks (40-80 hours)
- Organizing receipts for lender
- Tracking budget spreadsheets
- Paying subcontractors
- Updating lender on progress
- Managing timeline and schedule
- Daily communication and coordination
Balancing Work and Build
If You Keep Your Day Job
Pros:
- Steady income and cash flow
- Health insurance benefits
- Less financial stress
- Slower pace is less overwhelming
Cons:
- Significantly longer timeline
- Harder to manage subs effectively
- Miss critical events during workday
- Stress of managing two full-time commitments
Make It Work:
- Inform your employer early in process
- Use vacation days strategically
- Build in evenings and weekends
- Consider hiring a consulting GC for critical phases
If You Quit or Take Leave
Pros:
- Full-time availability when needed
- Faster overall timeline
- Better sub management and oversight
- Can do more DIY work
Cons:
- No income for 6-12 months
- Resume gap to explain
- High stress with no backup plan
- Must finish on budget (no margin for error)
Make It Work:
- Save 9-12 months of living expenses first
- Have partner with stable income
- Set firm budget with 20% contingency
- Have backup plan if you run over
Impact on Family Life
Be brutally honest about this with your family:
Weekends
- Most of your weekends will be consumed by the build
- Family activities will be severely limited
- Expect to spend 16-20 hours per weekend on project
- Kids' events may be missed
Weekday Evenings
- 2-4 evenings per week dedicated to project
- Dinner might be rushed or eaten on-site
- Kids might not see you as much as usual
- Less time for household responsibilities
Emotional Impact
- You'll be physically tired and mentally stressed
- You might be short-tempered or distracted
- Your partner bears this burden too
- Relationship strain is common
Duration Reality
- This isn't a 3-month sprint
- It's a 12-18 month marathon
- Family needs to be genuinely prepared
- Support system is critical
Discuss this honestly with your family before starting. Make sure everyone is truly on board. A reluctant spouse or resentful kids can make an already stressful project unbearable.
Timeline Tips to Stay on Track
1. Build in Buffer Time
Your 12-month estimate should include:
- 15-20% buffer for inevitable delays
- Weather allowance (especially winter)
- Sub scheduling slippage
- Inspection failure re-work time
Realistic planning: 12-month estimate = 14-15 months actual
2. Track Your Critical Path
Some delays don't matter. Some cascade through everything:
Critical Path Items (focus here):
- Foundation inspection failure → delays everything
- Framing inspection failure → delays all trades
- Rough-in inspection failures → delays drywall
- Permit delays → delays groundbreaking
Non-Critical Items (less urgent):
- Interior door delays → can work around
- Light fixture backorders → install later
- Landscaping delays → do after move-in
3. Communicate Relentlessly
Communication Best Practices
4. Front-Load All Decisions
Don't wait until you "need" something to order it:
- Make finish decisions 8-12 weeks early
- Order long-lead items ASAP (cabinets: 6-12 weeks, countertops: 4-8 weeks)
- Select paint colors before drywall is done
- Choose fixtures before rough-in is complete
5. Accept the Evening/Weekend Reality
This is simply the reality of owner-building while working. Plan for it rather than resent it.
When to Reassess
Consider pausing or bringing in professional help if:
- You're consistently spending 30+ hours/week and burning out
- Your day job performance is suffering noticeably
- Family relationships are seriously strained
- Project is taking 2x longer than planned
- You're significantly over budget with no contingency left
- You're making poor decisions due to exhaustion
It's okay to bring in help—consulting GC, project manager, or full GC takeover—if you're drowning. Ego is not worth your health, job, or marriage.
The Bottom Line
Owner-building will consume 500-2,000 hours of your life over 12-18 months.
Is It Worth It?
The Math:
- If you save $75,000 over 1,000 hours = $75/hour
- Plus valuable skills learned
- Plus deep satisfaction of building your own home
- Minus significant stress and life disruption
Only you can decide if that math works for your situation, family, and life stage.
If you have young kids, a demanding job, health issues, or a reluctant spouse, the math may not work out. And that's okay. Hiring a great GC might be the smarter choice for your life circumstances.